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Coercive Control: Recognising and Responding to Emotional Abuse

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Coercive control is a serious form of domestic abuse, which became a criminal offence in England and Wales under section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015. It refers to a pattern of controlling, isolating and emotionally abusive behaviour, used by one person to dominate or manipulate another in an intimate or family relationship.

Although it may not leave physical scars, emotional abuse through coercive control can have a devastating and long-lasting impact on a person’s mental health, autonomy and safety, and can be just as damaging as physical violence. It is often subtle and difficult to detect, both for victims and those around them.

This blog aims to raise awareness of coercive control, help individuals and their loved ones to identify the warning signs, and explain the legal protections and remedies available.

 

What is Coercive Control?

Coercive control is not defined by a single incident, but by a pattern of behaviour that causes an individual to fear violence or feel seriously alarmed, distressed or frightened.

Some examples of coercive control may include:

  • Isolating a partner from friends and/or family.
  • Monitoring phone calls, messages or movements.
  • Controlling finances or access to money.
  • Degrading, humiliating or gaslighting another individual.
  • Threats of harm, including to self, children or pets.

The above behaviours often occur behind closed doors, making them difficult to detect, and are used to dominate and instil fear, often without any physical violence.

 

The Law on Coercive Control

Under Section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015, it is a criminal offence for an individual to engage in coercive or controlling behaviour against someone they are personally connected to, such as a current or former partner or a family member. To establish an offence, the prosecution must show that the behaviour was repeated or continuous, that the victim and perpetrator were personally connected, and that the behaviour had a serious effect on the victim.

The offence carries a maximum sentence of 5 years’ imprisonment, a fine, or both.

 

Recognising the Signs of Coercive Control

Many victims do not realise that they are experiencing coercive control until the situation escalates. Furthermore, friends, family and professionals may also struggle to identify the signs, particularly where the perpetrator presents as calm, rational or charming in public.

Common emotional and behavioural indicators include:

  • The victim becoming withdrawn or anxious.
  • A loss of autonomy or constant fear of ‘doing something wrong.’
  • The victim appearing to need permission for basic activities.
  • Dramatic changes in the victim’s social contact, work or finances.

It is important to emphasise that the above signs are not always immediately visible or acknowledged by the victim, making this form of abuse difficult to detect or monitor.

 

Legal and Protective Remedies

Victims of coercive control have both criminal and civil/family law protections available to them.

  1. Criminal Law

Victims of coercive behaviour can report the abuse to the police, who may investigate and bring charges against the perpetrator under the Serious Crime Act 2015.

Evidence may include messages, recordings, witness testimonies, or personal diaries.

 

  1. Civil/Family Law

Victims can apply for protective measures under the Family Law Act 1996, such as:

  • A Non-Molestation Order, which prohibits the abuser from threatening, harassing or contacting the victim, and breach of which is a criminal offence.

 

  • An Occupation Order, which regulates who can live in the family home or can exclude the abuser from the property altogether.

 

Supporting Someone Experiencing Coercive Control

If you are concerned that someone you know may be facing coercive control, it is important to listen without judgement and to avoid criticising the victim’s choices. The victim should be encouraged to seek support from a specialist domestic abuse service, and to make a safety plan if they are considering leaving the relationship.

Finally, the victim should be reassured that emotional abuse is never acceptable, and that there is professional help available.

For confidential support:

  • National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 (available 24/7)
  • Refuge: refuge.org.uk
  • Men’s Advice Line: 0808 801 0327

 

Conclusion

Coercive control is an often hidden yet powerful form of abuse, which can leave deep emotional scars on victims. Recognising the signs of coercive control and understanding the legal remedies available is a crucial first step in protecting yourself and your loved ones.

If you are experiencing coercive control or emotional abuse, you are not alone. Our experienced and compassionate Cardiff-based family law team can help you access the protection you need, with complete confidentiality and understanding.

Contact Us today for expert legal advice and support, tailored to your circumstances.

 

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